Online Dating Not Working For You? Try Paying It Forward…

by Chaszey Sandhriel

Has it ever ocurred to you that most profiles are beginning with “I?” And while this may make sense to you, because you are the one looking for true love, this process can be made a lot more enjoyable if you can make it about the other person.

Sandhriel states: “Online Dating is not about the person posting the ad, but about the person they are looking for; this is called Compound Interest. You can achieve success when you ‘Pay it Forward.’”

“What, I have to pay something forward?” you may say.

Think about it. There are more than 10 million Daters registered with Internet Dating sites paying over $2 billion dollars per year in the hopes of finding true love. If everyone is looking for just that one person, the likelihood that we spend most of our time rejecting others and being rejected ourselves is a given. In other words, once your sizzling profile is public, all you can focus on is weeding through the hundreds or even thousands of men and women that flood towards you.

Until your true love has found you, try earning some karma browny points by responding to those you’re not interested in with grace. Because that most likely what you’ll spend most of your time with when you embark on the wild world of Online Dating.

“We all have heard the saying that ‘what goes out comes back tenfold.’ What we tend to forget is that no one should have to earn our kindness and our respect. Everyone deserves these gifts from us for the simplest fact that we share in the same sun light, the same water, the same air, and we all walk pretty similar paths to one another, a journey called life. We have to recognize and never forget that we all are looking for the same thing: Unconditional love,” says Chaszey.

Learning how to send graceful rejections that don’t feel like rejections to your suiters takes time, effort and a kind heart. Chaszey says: “It’s so worth it because soon you realize your positive karma points are subject to compound interest and before you know it your life is changing in dramatic ways that you never dreamed possible. It’s hard to explain, but so worth it.”

These points add to your character and create a new, stronger and kinder you that undoubtedly will attract the right person you so deserve.

So next time you want to hit that preset button sending a “no thanks” message, think about taking the time to read the person’s profile and sending them a reply filled with kindness, because they really deserve it.

Chaszey Sandhriel is Your Online Dating Coach. She can help you get the results you deserve. Visit her website to download free tips and participate in free tele-seminars, www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com, or you can reach her at 415.419.7952.

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Before you build your own Internet Dating Profile, you must check out Chaszey’s “Do’s and Dont’s of Successful Online Dating Profiles. You can download the free report by going to http://www.youronlinedatingcoach.com.