Get Your Man Back by Being Honest

by Justin Krawl

Breakups are a sad part of life, and some are more painful experiences than others. One of the saddest moments a girl can experience is losing the love of her life and not being able to get over it. All she can think about is getting back together again. Sometimes the reasons behind the breakup are pretty clear, but other times it’s very hard to know. Sometimes a girl leaves a relationship with the perfect guy only to realize later on that she made a huge mistake.

If that’s happened to you, probably the biggest question in your mind is ‘how to get him back.’ The first and most important thing to do is figure out why the relationship ended in the first place. This is the most important thing to know when trying to get your ex back. Be cautious, though, if the reason for your breakup had anything to do with controlling, abusive, or cheating behavior. You need to seriously ask yourself whether this is a relationship you really want.

Then think about what attracted him to you originally. If this initial appeal no longer is part of who you are, that could be why he broke up with you. Consider what you’ve changed about yourself, and whether these changes have been for the best. Remember that the perfect partner doesn’t have to accept or be comfortable with every aspect of who you are. You may be able to think of something you can’t fully accept about him too.

Remember all the good times and use these memories to pull him back to you. Remind him of the happiness you shared together; he may miss it also. If there was an outfit or perfume that you remember he went crazy over, wear it again around him. Don’t try to make him jealous, just use these reminders to awaken his memories and perhaps he will also regret that he is now missing out on having you in his life.

Be forthcoming with your feelings, too. Let him know how bad you feel that things didn’t work out, and that you’d try your best if given another chance. This is not the time for playing games - a guy in his position will appreciate honesty more than anything else. Give him room to say his opinions about what went wrong in the relationship and whether he thinks the problem can be fixed.

These are great steps towards getting him back. Understand that it’s not guaranteed, since you may not be able to change the way he feels. If he doesn’t feel the same way as he once did, you don’t want to be back with him anyways. Don’t try to force the relationship, or you may push him away as a friend too. On the other hand, if he starts the relationship again and begins to take advantage of you, end it immediately.

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